The problem is that you need to know how to love yourself unconditionally, because this is the only method that you can “conquer” a woman.
What are the “buttons”?
It is not like having your own charming machine, but every woman has her buttons that need to be pushed. Here are some ideas that might help.
1. Touch emotional subjects
Subjects such as childhood and her plans on long term, and talking about the passions of her is a good idea. They are all subjects that would awake her interest about you.
2. Women want a leader
While you talk, take over control and don’t be afraid to impose the subject of the discussion. Even if she might be annoyed, she will see that you are the leader. Don’t overreact! If she does not want to talk about her mother, don’t push the subject just to show that you can obtain what you like.
3. Be careful about gestures!
All the clues given by a woman are in her gestures! All the non verbal reactions are there. For example, if you sit too close to her, you might spit her when you talk, and she will definitely show you that this is annoying.
4. Be charming and funny, not a buffoon
Women like men with a sense of humor, but sticking a spoon on your nose is not a classy joke. It is a huge difference, and a gentleman knows it.
5. Be a gentleman
Women love the attention, but too much of it will make you a puppy! Play with her, put her on fire, and create the flirting atmosphere.
6. Be intimate but not invasive
Women like men that are able to take the discussion to intimate “places”, but this does not mean to ask her if she is shaved…you know where. Intimate talks must be about her soul, her feelings and her desires, not about her earrings and hidden piercings.
7. Show her that you can read her
You can express your opinion about how you feel and what you like, as women like to talk about themselves, but also men which can hear. Nodding your head in a boring and continuous “Yes” is not a way to express attention.
8. Don’t overreact with compliments
Talking about her shoes or about her dress is one thing, but talking about her incredible looks all the time it is just too much. The line between compliments and “ass liking” is thin, so be sure not to cross it.
9. What you need to avoid
The interview questions are just annoying. It is normal for you to be curious, but putting here in a string of questions will definitely annoy her.
“Where are you from?” Oh, yeah, a real inspiration. You can use “you don’t seem to be from around”. This shows interest, leaves mystery and allows her to express.